2021
This year started out fantastic so I never would have guessed that it would end on such a sour note
February 14 pulpit Rock Pond ice fishing
3-1 Had left shoulder surgery with Dr Luber, I was playing video games at this time and that was the worst mistake I could have ever made being lazy I should have moved way more because my shoulder bothered me for a long time after this event
March 10
Moore State Park
May 26 Lightning storm in West Warren youtube link
https://youtu.be/sQ_TnX82zfc
August - baby bird, Sue's son and family stay next door while i was sick, tried to talk. When Sue's son arrived, I tried to talk to him in the basement and he wasn't interested in learning what was going on. I really wonder if I could have figured things out if someone would have sat down and talked with me, instead of others always ignoring all the problems that were going on around us. I think the worst part is Adam works for NASA, I thought this kid was intelligent you would have thought he would have tried to figure out every single problem that was placed in front of him. lol Especially if someone has a problem with your mother, wouldn't you like to understand what was going on. Unless he already knew and didn't want to admit it. lol
It didn't help that the first night they arrived sue had piled up chairs in front of my door so we couldn't get into our apartment and then one of her son's dogs barreled towards us and because Harley's leash was attached the wrong way it snapped off and she could have been crushed. I was sick at the time so I felt like the situation was far worse than it might have been. Perception is 9/10 reality so it doesn't really matter what other people think, it only matters what you think in that moment and unfortunately I was sick and I felt like that whole situation was terrible I thought Harley was going to die. I'll have to get into this more
August 21 Dom's birthday party last party with Dad. Youtube link
https://youtu.be/ym2d-TM1b-k
September 5
September 18 took these pictures of the last toy I saw from my great grandpa
September 27 and 28- Today was the first successful and non-successful flight of my Zohd Dart 250 RC plane. The FPV plane and I haven't flown it since but there's a fun story behind this man I got it right more
https://youtu.be/6lAhGo0GFSA
https://youtu.be/kSabiZsib3U
2021
October 4, 2021- Beth 911 audio
Date: October 4, 2021
Event: Beth’s 911 Call (Angry and Dispatch Audio)
Link: https://youtu.be/nn2X-KhZBdY?si=WnGeyBe3-UMmReUz
Notes: This is the day Beth called police
Date: October 4, 2021
Event: Beth getting restraining order.
Link: https://youtu.be/Msg5z8CFuD8?si=_3N2lyGfcXGLf6zI
Notes: this is audio from one Beth went to get the restraining order after calling police and lying about my elbowing her in the face.
October 14, 2021 restraining order audio that I posted on YouTube shows Beth lying or you can hear Beth lying saying that my father said she could have our apartment and I wasn’t allowed back to the house
https://youtu.be/iiaYXPwptbM?si=x7f1WiNlEh6x2FA4
2021 I encouraged Beth to get back in touch with her daughter and reconnect. Part of that was taking her son and daughter to purgatory camWhich was a big rock place is a big rock place near where his Group home was Beth’s mother and stepfather met her and her daughter their and surprised them, they knew their was lack of communication in the fsmily, but didn’t use positive encouragement to solve issues. They were much older, Beth is also 6 years older than I am, so they’re elderly, they all had a great time. Beth’s autistic son also encouraged his younger sister to climb a steep rock that day and it was documented on video, showing that autistic people have feeling and can encourage others too. He told his sister come on you can do it and he’s not a verbal kid. He doesn’t talk a lot. And not in coherent sentences like that, it was awesome.
Beth and I were talking about how she wanted me to deal with those bogus felonies on my record. the case I told you about, where the commonwealth created and altered evidence in my case, all to cover up a driver without insurance, then they all acted stupid when I provided evidence of their crimes, then they took advantage of my fragile mental state, when I was in the psych ward, after trying to kill myself multiple times, due to medication intern and my hyperthyroidism and then they coerced me into pleading guilty.
Beth wanted me to be co-guardian of her son Stephen. I helped her in ways no one ever had before.
Dealing with the commonwealth was overwhelming for Beth. You should know, everyone that works for the commonwealth seems to be stupid or totally corrupt.
She had nightmares, every night from the day I met her, because of the all abuse the commonwealth allowed to happen to her son before our meeting and the nonsense they continued forcing her to endure after I began seeing her. The commonwealth representatives lied on so many occasions, people who took reports from both Beth and I, altered our reports and left out vital information regarding the safety and well-being of her son Stephen. All to cover up this abuse and there’s pictures to prove it all.
Beth and I were both seeing therapists when we met and for some time after.
I spoke with my therapists about all the abuse Beth and her son endured. I know there’s a record about how Beth was struggling to deal with it all.
I spoke to my therapist about how all the abuse and tampering with evidence and failure of state employees to simply do their jobs, was causing me to lose sleep and worry about her son as well.
There’s also the emails, I don’t know how mine got deleted, there are all the emails that I wrote and sent out on Beth and Stephens behalf.
Stephen received a settlement from one the incidents he was abused, even though it wasn’t thoroughly investigated. Beth kept track of all the hours and time I spent helping her son, in order to pay me for my time. Beth was also supposed to reimburse me for using and not taking care of my car. This was part of the conversation the day I left, the settlement Stephen received had stipulations and made it hard to spend on anything that could help him or truly benefit him in any realistic/meaningful way.
Along with any mental health information, Beth had a list of physical issues she was dealing with at this time of this alleged incident.
She had a leg issue, that gave her back and neck pain. Rashes all over her body, I have pictures of some of these rashes and reactions. These are all things she spoke to my family about constantly.
I explained to you how sick I was and why I ran off that morning.
Beth was in total shock, she had no idea why I completely changed and told her I wasn’t happy and couldn’t take it all anymore.
Yes—you’ve already shared a comprehensive timeline of Beth’s son and your involvement in multiple group homes and psych ward visits, including:
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- KDC and Amigo homes:
You shared firsthand experiences of neglect—face injuries with no explanation, unsanitary conditions, missing documentation, FaceTime being misused, and abusive staff behavior like watching violent videos and misusing his Netflix account . - Relocations to Fall River and Southbridge were implied but not clearly time-stamped. You did describe Beth tracking miles on your car and covering expenses for your many visits to her son’s homes, which included multiple long drives both before and after the alleged assault .
- Driving there weeks before the assault:
Confirmed—you wrote that Beth was pushing you to continue surprise visits to keep an eye on her son. You mentioned being overwhelmed but still showing up to help during unsafe or under-documented situations .
What’s Still Missing?
If there are specific details about:
- exact dates of those trips (especially the one weeks before the incident)
- any visit logs or messages confirming your trip to Southbridge or Fall River
- the staff or agencies tied to those locations
…then those haven’t been laid out in full. But the core pattern, roles, travel, and emotional burden? It’s already documented in detail.
Want me to help turn all of this into a single clean timeline post for your blog or evidence archive? I can pull the key points into a scrollable summary or structured affidavit. Just say the word.
october 29
I wasn't in my right mind when I first started writing this stuff I was still traumatized from being arrested and falsely accused of assaulting someone
I don’t understand why I was smart enough to write myself a couple emails to remember things, but I wasn’t smart enough enough to force my lawyer’s in the beginning to write emails.
Copy from b3 file
2021: when I moved back to my mother’s house, I brought my entire toy And I started going to the gym again with my nephew, even though I wasn’t feeling great. I was trying to stay as positive as possible..
looking back, I now remember that she used to start these fights with us every time around my birthday. lol Only problem is this time I wasn’t in my right mind and I didn’t talk her out of it. I went along with it.
As upset as I was about her lying about me assaulting her, I was very grateful for all the time I got to spend with my nephew, and I’m still grateful for it. This pic was taken 10-10-2021, I’m smiling under the mask and my scrawny little bicep that I’m trying to flex is blocking my nephew’s face. lol
I emailed myself this bunch of nonsense after Beth lied about me elbowing her.
From: Ricky Stebbins (thestebbman@yahoo.com)
To: thestebbman@yahoo.com
Date: Monday, October 25, 2021 at 12:32 PM EDT
I told her all the complaints my friends and family have about her.
Everyone thinks she’s the laziest girlfriend I’ve ever had.
She doesn’t have any friends.
When she visits with me and someone asks her how’s she’s doing.
She overwhelms them with all of her issues.
She had a short leg and it’s hard to work.
Her son was abused.
Her mom used to choke and hit her as a kid.
Her apartment was cleaner when she didn’t have a job.
She tells everyone she has depression, anxiety, ptsd, Arthritis, allergies to everything,
She’s told everyone that birth control makes her angry and she didn’t feel like herself.
She’s never apologized to me for anything. It’s always my fault
Then it’s embarrassing for when when people ask me what’s she’s doing to get help and I have to tell them she stopped
seeking help. And that she doesn’t document all of her issues. Yet she’s always on her phone.
I told her that I’m not happy. My neck always hurts, she never helps me at all. She always claims her hands hurt and
she’s tired. Which I understand, but that still doesn’t help me at all. I’m just stuck with no one by my side. It’s always
about her and what she wants.
Yet when I’m around she tells everyone about how I always help her with her son and I clean up around the house and
fold laundry she never puts away. I take care of brushing the dogs teeth.
I told her that I think she’s happy she had a disabled son, cause she never wants to work. She sent her son to a
group home cause she wanted to play video games and didn’t remove him when there was signs of abuse.
I had to talk her into taking her son out, she always said she didn’t want him to act out and was afraid of him
If I’m such a monster and there was a history of abuse. Why hasn’t she ever looked for an apartment or a full time job?
Why does she think she’s going to live next to my father at a discounted rent?
This isn’t even the first time Beth has brought up calling the police. Many times Beth has followed me around the house
and said- go ahead hit me, then I’ll call the police. And she would keep going until she got it out of her system.
She’s admitted in front of my family that when I try to walk away from her, when I feel that she’s getting over aggressive,
she refuses to give me space. She would follow me around the house and into our bedroom. I talked to my therapists
about her behavior and this was years ago. I’ve continuously told her that she has no right to prevent me from walking
away from her hostile behavior.
That morning she came out onto the porch and we talked for a couple minutes. I be told her multiple times that my
body didn’t feel good and my neck hurt. Beth began getting upset when I informed her that my father told me he doesn’t
want anymore cars in the driveway. Beth said she was going to speak with him and I told her it didn’t make any sense to
start trouble over something that isn’t going to happen anytime soon. I didn’t have money for a car and her daughter
didn’t even have her permit. Beth then brought up Olivia’s boyfriend sleeping over. I told her we will have to see. That
this is my fathers house and we already agreed to live by his rules. He already spoke to me about raising the rent
because of water and taxes. Beth started getting upset saying- we pay rent and can do whatever we want.
> I told her my neck is still really bothering me and I need a break. Then she started saying that I always do this on her
days off. I told her that I’m not mad at all, I’m just not happy. She kept saying that I’m mad. I tried explaining that I just
spent the last week getting this apartment rearranged and cleaned, so that her daughter could move in. I never
complained or tried to talk her out of it. She said her daughter needed a place to stay and I made it happen. Beth barely
helped at all. And she wouldn’t even give me a half hour to wake up. I told her I think she’s selfish and unappreciative.
Beth told me no one else thinks that. I told her she’s lying to herself. Beth then said- then tell me what people think.
Beth followed me around the house and kept saying that if I’m so unhappy I should hit her. She blocked the middle
bedroom door and told me to touch her and she’ll call the police. When she finally moved out of the way, we went
downstairs and she grabbed my backpack and refused to let me take it with me. I never tried to yank it from her. Though
she kept trying to get me to, egging me on. I kept telling her she can’t trap me here. She grabbed the headphones I had
hanging prevented me from taking those as well
“ it’s 2025 and I thought I’d share my thoughts on this email I sent myself. I feel like such a pathetic loser and I feel like I was lying to myself in this email.
When I told her all the complaints of my friends and tell me about, it was a joke because they’re idiots, people would complain about serious problems when Beth would talk about it because they didn’t understand what she was talking about.
I feel like this is a totally different person writing this email. I literally wrote about how I ignored her having a mental breakdown and walked out on her. I’ve given this woman my word that I would never walk out on her when she wanted to talk about something she was having a panic attack. And I literally wrote myself a note about it.
And I love brushing the dogs teeth, I snuggle with Harley for like 10 minutes before I brush your teeth every night, it became the favorite part of my day and here I am whining about it like a little baby.“
I wrote this to myself in a Facebook post on November 7, 2021 after hearing my brother tell me what a loser I was and a disappointment I've been all my life. My brother gave me crap because I started going to the gym and I posted pictures because I went on a hike with my nephew. he thinks disabled people need to be fat and look like turds.
“With things being so hectic, I just want to say again how very much I appreciate everyone who’s helped me with these unexpected moves and those who stood by my side this past month. I am beyond grateful and know I couldn’t have done all of this on my own.
This whole experience has turned out to be so positive and I honestly didn’t think that was even possible, I would’ve bet it was going to be a nightmare. Even a few of the conversations I’ve had with certain people started off sounding like it was going to end on a sour note, but I am so happy to admit that I was wrong. Brutally honest, just say it how it appears comments were exactly what we needed to bring us closer together. I really listened to all of the things everyone had to say and I admit that some of it was spot on, while others were not. I don’t hold these misconceptions against anyone. There are times I still can’t accept that there are things in my life that I can’t change or that I can’t fix everything and need to let things go or step back and admit that I don’t have what it takes anymore.
I’d be lost without those close to me and as much as I hate to admit it, I can’t make it on my own with my physical issues. I can’t change my situation, but everyone helped change my attitude about it and for that, I will forever be grateful.
I have the greatest friends and family a guy could ask for. I love you all very much and because of all of you, I feel better both physically and mentally than I have in a long time.”
What I learned from this is that people love to tell you all the mistakes that they see you make, but never have anything positive to say or offer any ideas on how to realistically improve anything. And people are too ignorant to even investigate why problems are occurring. They just like to mock people who are having problems. ~Ricky 5-2025~
In November I started playing with sparklers and the shutter speed on my camera in the backyard I did this around the 26th
Aimee asked me to install lights in her little princess castle and wanted to take a picture of me wearing one of her favorite shirts so I agreed
Snowman Mortimer 12-25 To make things worse I slipped and fell down the stairs and bruised my rear end before I made this snowman. But I had my heart set on making him so I made him anyway even though I wasn't feeling fantastic anymore lol
Took this picture December 26th I didn't think this guy was going to make it it warmed up pretty fast
Took this picture of Mortimer New Year's Eve December 31st he made it even though where the weather was warm
🗓 March 1 – Shoulder surgery
🗓 August – Sue’s son visit, Harley incident
🗓 October 4 – Beth’s 911 call + restraining order
🗓 Oct 10 – Gym pic with nephew
🗓 Nov 7 – Facebook reflection
🗓 Late Nov – Sparklers photography
🗓 Dec 25 – Mortimer the Snowman
🗓 Dec 31 – Mortimer survives!
Medications for the year.
